I have recently been engaged (less than a month), and both me and my fiance are virgins. We have started fooling around but we agreed that we'll save the sex till we're married.

The problem is that i haven't been able to have an orgasm till now and I'm getting a bit worried since I don't know if this is normal or not, especially since we're having oral sex and he uses his hands. When he does use his hands, its ok at the beginning but then it kinds of starts hurting after a while. The thing is, I used to masturbate before and i did have orgasms!

He doesn't seem to have the same problem though. Is there something wrong with me? or is it him? Do you have any suggestions or advice that can help me out here? click here

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Dear Michael -

I do not perform oral on my girl too frequently as she usually prefers to go directly to intercourse. When I do, my tongue usually is sore for a few days afterward. Do you have any suggestions for managing the pain, shy of giving oral more often? click here

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Dear Michael -

I am a woman that has problems having an orgasm during sex without using "toys". Do you have any suggestions that might help? click here

Dear Michael -

What positions will allow me to delay my orgasm/ejaculation? click here

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Dear Michael -

Recently, I was "in the mood", but as I had my period, my husband felt that it would not be a good idea. His comment / concern was that it would make my period worse, or last longer, due to the stimulation of penetration. Do you think this is the case? Would penetration stimulate and worsen the monthly bleed? click here

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Dear Michael -

I've heard there is a difference between having an orgasm and cumming? for both men & women.. Is there? click here

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Dear Michael -

I just have a question, is there any particular time to have sex. some say we can have sex after the cycle and also before the cycle. So if we have sex during those days then my girlfriend will not get pregnant. How true is it? click here

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Dear Michael -

I am not sure if this is common or not, but my partner told me that my nipples have a distinct taste. He didn't say it was "bad," but I can tell that it is and that it would be more enjoyable for him, as well as for me, if this wasn't an issue. I was wondering if you have any ideas on how I can either change something I'm doing to make them naturally taste better or if there is anything I can use to cover up the taste. ... click here

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Dear Michael -

I have an issue with having a dry mouth, I am on several medicines and I they contribute to this problem. My partner and I thoroughly enjoy oral sex, but I always seem to not be able to produce enough saliva to ensure his satisfaction. ... click here

Dear Michael -

Why is it that all men I've been with (including my husband) are
fascinated with trying to do anal?  click here

Thanks,
B.

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Dear Michael -

My husband is rarely in the mood anymore. We used to make love about once a week but now it is every two or three months. Its not that he is against it he just says that he's tired. What can I do? click here

Thanks,
Sherry