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Dear Michael -

Why is it that all men I've been with (including my husband) are
fascinated with trying to do anal?

Thanks,
B.

 

Dear B. -

There are probably a few answers to your question. More and more men are seeing porn since it is readily available on their computer.  Porn producers are in the business of creating fantasies.  So they create situations that most people do not typically experience (like a cheerleader coming to your doorstep selling candy bars with nothing under her skirt).  Anal sex is one of those things that most men never experience but will often see if they look at porn. I'm pretty sure that when it is on the screen the women are screaming and moaning like it is incredible (when in reality there is naturally a lot of pain involved). Those images get men to begin fantasizing about it.

Another reason is that men are natural risk takers. Most would love to have sex in the middle of the woods even if there was a small chance of getting caught. Anal sex is a risky behavior and that is one of the reasons it can be exciting to men. 

One last reason that I can think of is that when it comes to intercourse for men, tight is good. Of course an anus is just about as tight as you can get. So that probably holds some appeal to men as well.

 

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