Anal Play - What are the risks with fingering an anus during sex?

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Dear Lovemaking Answers: What are the usual "risks" of oral sex and anal finger play? My husband likes to speed up my orgasms by playing with my anus & putting his finger in there while giving oral on the clit. I am concerned that he is infecting my sensitive region, especially as his fingers are rough, he works as a fitter and turner and his hands are calloused. I seem to get like a gravel rash, splits, itching and then "can't touch that" pain which will take a few weeks to recover from. What are the usual "risks" of oral sex and anal finger play? Anonymous The bacteria from your anus has to be kept away from your vagina. It's a quick way to get an infection. That's why as little girls, we are all taught to wipe from front to back --- not reverse. If his fingers are rough, they can break the tender parts of your skin "down there" and allow bacteria into your bloodstream and that will cause an infection that takes time to heal from. If you enjoy the stimulation, be sure to tell him he can't take those fingers anywhere else and be sure that BOTH OF YOU wash thoroughly with soap and hot water when finished to keep you infection free! TiKi ------- Another option for you it to have your husband use a toy on your that can be sanitized after each use. - Michael READER'S RESPONSES:

With rough calloused hands this pipe fitter needs to wear a finger cot to protect her and make clean-up easy for him. Hand lotion would go far for this guy (Think Cornhuskers!!). How would he like it if she played with "His Pipe"" and had sand on her hands!!

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