Dear Michael -

My wife and I are looking to experience something new and we had
both decided we want to try anal sex. The only thing is that she is afraid of it hurting. If there is anything that would make it feel better for her or for her to feel more comfortable with the idea, it would be highly appreciated by both of us.

- Anonymous


Dear Anonymous -

I wouldnt be doing my job if I didnt give you some caution here.
It is great to want to keep things fresh and exciting in your
marital lovemaking. I'm all for that. However, with anal sex you will be messing around with something that is very risky. There is a lot of potential for tearing and long-term problems and you can find lots of documented cases of serious injuries. Obviously you also have the sanitary issue to consider as well.

It is true that there are some sensitive/pleasurable nerve endings in the anus but those are really only on the exterior inch. So, the only pleasure she will receive is if you touch that area only - maybe you could use your fingertips instead.

Sure, you can try to *clean her out* and massage and stretch and
lubricate the opening and take it very slowly to minimize the pain for her but honestly I think there are much better ways to make things fresh for you without the enormous risks of anal sex.

I am sending you a copy of my 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets. You will have years worth of new tips. You will see that you dont have to do risky things to keep it exciting.

Michael

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I wish I had this warning. I allowed my boyfriend to talk me into this several years ago and now ever time I go to the toilet I bleed.

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