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Dear Michael -

My man and I have been together for nearly a year now, and I really want to pleasure him orally, but he finds oral sex disgusting. He doesn't like the idea of kissing me after my mouth has been "down there" on him. Can I make him want oral sex?

Thanks,
P.

 

Dear P -

We have a few different issues here. Let's address each of them.

* He doesn't like to kiss you after you have had your lips around a penis. That is psychologically troubling for some guys.  For him, it might be as though his own lips have been on a penis.  So, don't try to kiss him afterwards.

* He finds oral sex disgusting.  Is this a statement about oral sex in general (he doesn't think sex organs are clean) or is it because he simply doesn't want to go down on you (a completely different matter altogether)?  For some men, the thought of a mouth on a penis is indeed a dirty job. Many men have this thought that only "dirty" girls do that.  It might be that he loves you so much he would never imagine you doing something like that.

The next time you want to please him with a blow job, you might jump in the shower with him when he knows it is squeaky clean (or even wash it for him). That might be a lot more enjoyable for him. Then again, it might be so ingrained in his mind that this is repulsive that he will never enjoy it.

It is also possible that he has had some bad oral sex experiences -- maybe both as a giver and a receiver which has turned him off on the act.  Yes, there is such a thing as really bad oral sex. It is possible that if you give him the blow job of a lifetime he will want it more often.  You might want to read my ebook- Blow by Blow if you haven't already.

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