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Dear Michael - Dear Anonymous - There are a few different potential issues going on here. First, you have to ask yourself just how loving and giving your man is. Is he willing and able to try every possible position and technique to bring you to orgasm no matter how long it takes? Will he put on desensitizing cream in order to stay harder longer? Wear a cock ring if necessary? Most men want nothing more than to provide their partners with screaming orgasms. It makes them feel more manly. But, alas, there are the other men.... Statistically, the best position for a women to orgasm is man on bottom. That way she can control the motions that work best for her. If a man isn't willing to put forth the time and effort for you, then don't feel badly one bit about your toys. The other issue is that you have likely trained yourself to respond to toys and compared with them (and your skillful touch) a man's penis is not able to generate the feeling and pleasure your body is used to in order to bring you to orgasm. Men who masturbate frequently can have similar issues. A few options: * Fantasize that your man's rod IS your favorite toy. You might be able to trick your mind that way. * Have your man bring you to orgasm with his mouth (cunnilingus). The toys you are using are probably closer in action/sensation to a tongue than a penis. Doing this right really does take proper technique. Many women who have difficult orgasming with intercourse have explosive orgasms with mouth stimulation. Download him a copy of Lick by Lick. * Wean yourself off your toys and give your body/mind time to reset their sensory triggers. This could take months. If you are constantly "releasing" yourself with toys (or your hands) then you aren't allowing the passion to build up so that your man can help release you. * If all else fails, use your toys and have him a part of it as well. Teach him how to use the toys to please you. Put vibrating eggs or other devices between the two of you. Men love the sensation of a vibrator on their genitals. Bringing your toys into the bed might increase the passion between you.
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