Dear Michael -
I am a 26 year old female. I have an issue
with having a dry mouth, I am on several medicines and I they contribute
to this problem. My partner and I thoroughly enjoy oral sex, but I
always seem to not be able to produce enough saliva to ensure his
satisfaction. I usually keep something to drink nearby or some kind of
candy that causes my mouth to water. He does a really good job of
coaching, but I would love to come up with a method that he would be
pleased and impressed with. He thoroughly satisfies me and want to do
the same for him and I know me being able to produce more salvia during
oral sex would help.
What advice of suggestions could you make to help make of our situation
better?
Thanks,
W.
Dear W. -
Wetness IS one of the key components of a great
blow job/
oral sex. There are options besides saliva. You can squeeze a
fruit over his penis, like a peach, mango or orange which will provide some
slickness and tasty for you too as you lick and suck it off. Of course they
do get sticky in time. There are also edible flavored lubricants you
can try although I doubt they are really that yummy.
For something more savory you can rub on some flavored
butters or even creams (think of stuff you put in your coffee). Irish
Cream, the liquer would certainly add a twist.
Reader's responses:
I'm not sure if I've shared this tip with you before but it
could help this woman with her dry mouth problem.
I keep a box of Jr. Mints in my freezer. I buy a big box rather than the
kind that is the one serving kind. I mention this because I think the mints
are actually bigger in this size box. (walmart $1.88) Anyway, if I pop a jr.
mint in my mouth (as we're settling down, it doesn't have to be frozen) it
fits very snuggly in the roof of my mouth and will literally stay there for
a very long time ... until I decide it's time to use it to my advantage
during the bj. Once I decide to "squish" it with my tongue and release the
thick creamy mint inside the fun begins. After a few swallows the bulk of
the mint is pretty much gone but because of it's texture and creaminess the
moisture and flavor hang around for a good 15 or 20 minutes (maybe longer, I
don't watch the clock) after the mint has dissolved. It's not sticky at all
if you do it right and lick it clean. You can move on to intercourse if you
want without a chocolate mess or having to clean anything up. There is
something erotic about this whole ordeal (maybe because I love chocolate and
mint!) that makes giving a bj a real turn on for me .... and of course, that
in turn turns him on as well. My husband and I have been married over 31
years ... I've learned a lot in this amount of time on how to please him
.... too bad it takes so many years to perfect some things!
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have a few suggestions for the lady suffering from dry mouth
and wishing to please her man with a wetter experience.
1 ~ My dentist gave me a bottle of what I call my "spit pills" once for dry
mouth. Just a little pill that you chew that produces copious amounts of
saliva when two or three are chewed at the same time. They are sugar free
but sweeten the breath as well as wetting your whistler! You can get these
over the counter at any pharmacy/drugstore.
2 ~ Cough Drops ! Yes cough drops can get your saliva going and they provide
a "tingly" feeling for the recipient I'm told. The also are good for
lubricating your throat for achieving a deeper admittance. Plus, they are
mentholated so they produce a slight numbing sensation for a longer lasting
experience as well. A tiny bit of mouth wash will have the same tingly
effect but be careful not to ingest too much!
3 ~ Chilled Liquor! I wouldn't suggest a tequilla or a whiskey for this one.
But I do know that if you like Rum there are two flavors that I have had
success with ~ There is a certain Captain that makes a "Spiced" version and
a Pinapple version ( and several others now but I have yet to try ). You
chill the rum. Pour it about halfway full into a glass that will accomadate
your lover's length ( an on the rocks glass works well if you're starting
with this, or if your already in the throes then a taller glass might be
needed ). Of course you can't be laying down for this, sitting or standing
positions preferred. Dip his cock into the chilled liquor and then use your
warm mouth to suck and lick the liquid off. The cold/warm sensations will
thrill him. If you're not a drinker I would suggest ANY chilled drink.
4 ~ Suckers! Be his favorite little girl for the night. Pig tails and
lollipops can be a big turn on and the sucker can help in not only getting
your saliva going but can be used a prop for gliding up and down and around
his cock.
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In reply to woman having a dry mouth...
Try deep-throating your partner. You will likely have more saliva than you
know what to do with...
