Dear Michael -

I would like to ask you; as many men I'm worried about my size; what is really, really normal size when full power? Is it possible to add something by using vacuum pump ? My size is only 15,5 cm (6 inches) and I feel embarrassed when my girl see me naked without erection as it is rather small when not erected! What can I do?

best rgds from

Robert

Dear Robert -

First the GOOD news.  You are LARGER than average according to a number of penis length surveys.  The average penis is about 5.5 inches (14 cm) long when fully erect.

I know it can seem quite small compared to all those 8, 9 and 10-inch penises you see in porn but there are a lot of guys out there with 4 and 5 inch penises who would love to have your size.

Consider that most women don't view much or any porn and probably don't care too much about your size. Us guys are definitely fixated on size, but the majority of women are not.

Vacuum pumps will work on a temporary basis but I have not seen any credible reports that lead me to believe that they would not give you permanent results.

One of your concerns is the size of your penis when it is limp/flaccid.  Yours indeed might be smaller than average at that state.  If you want to enlarge it before someone sees you naked, simply massage it or pull on it to stretch it out a little. You can do the same with your sack, which will help your testicles hang out more, which will add to the visual.  Additionally, you can wrap your penis in a warm washcloth which will help the blood to flow and will lengthen and thicken your penis while still in its flaccid state. Warm water makes it grow, just like cold water makes it shrink.

If you want a more permanent natural solution to a bigger penis, both flaccid and erect, then there are a number of stretching exercises that have been documented to give guys some significant gains over time. Just liking pumping iron over time will increase the size of your muscles, there are exercises that will give you increased length and thickness in your manhood.  I have a report called Making it Bigger, Stronger and Last Longer - Naturally that might be of use to you.  I offer it as a bonus to those who purchase The Virtuoso Lover.

READER'S RESPONSES:

Most women definitely aren't as size obsessed with the size of a man's penis as HE IS. We're more concerned with the size of our thighs!

With that being said, I've been more impressed with being able to take a man's penis, flaccid, and work it into a full, hard erection. Guys who look like they are a constant
length and it only gets harder when they are ready for sex aren't nearly as fun as being able to take the average, "smaller when flaccid" penis and watch it grow before your very eyes!! :-) That is what's exciting!

It's like we are performing some great magician's trick with a penis through the actions of our touch - our hands and mouth - I call it the "making a mountain out of a mole hill" trick.

We're just waiting for the applause :-) !

Keeping your pubic hair trimmed back can also add to the visual length of your penis! 6 inches is larger than many guys and nothing to be ashamed of. :-)

Stop worrying about the size of the wand ~ and blow her away with how you use it...and more importantly ... how you treat her, before you use it!

:-)

TiKi

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Believe it or not, the average is what you've got. Longer is not better.

Since the infamous "G" spot is located no further than two inches from the opening of the vagina, a longer penis will hit the back wall sooner and is more likely to cause pain not related to the orgasm. I myself (a happily almost-married guy) have noticed I'm almost 7" and I'm finding stretch marks. If I grow much longer, I'll be good, but knowing that my "target area" isn't more than a penis head in distance from the entrance of her, I don't worry about it. And with that kind of information, neither should you.

If you are still worried about it, consider talking to your bride about your fears. In that way, you can assure her that you don't have the best of it, but you can give her what you have.