In Michael Webb's weekly Lovemaking Tips of the Week e-magazine, he regularly features a question from a subscriber along with his reply.  Many times those letters/answers invoke others to share advice as well.  Here is a place where we will "replay" some of those questions, along with answers from Michael, his panel of sex experts and his loyal subscribers. 

Newer questions will be added to the top of this column.

 

Dear Michael -

I feel terribly embarrassed by my terribly sagged boobs. I hate looking at myself in the mirror, the nighties I love to wear, cannot fit, my hubby surely feels bad about the boobs as he wishes to feel them the way I wish.

 

We have 5 kids all breast fed and don't wish for more kids.

Any help to bring my sagging breasts back to position?

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Dear Michael -

My husband likes to speed up my orgasms by playing with my anus & putting his finger in there while giving oral on the clit. I am concerned that he is infecting my sensitive region, especially as his fingers are rough, he works as a fitter and turner and his hands are calloused.

 

I seem to get like a gravel rash, splits, itching and then "can't touch that" pain which will take a few weeks to recover from.

What are the usual "risks" of oral sex and anal finger play?

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Dear Michael -

I know that the weight gain and depression are key factors here (in our sex problems), but how do I get her the push for help and to rekindle our enjoyments of each other? Help!!  Sex after gaining weight.

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Dear Michael -

I have a quick question. I am curious as to what foods can make your body fluids taste more pleasant and which foods to avoid? Also foods other than oysters to use as aphrodisiacs.

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Dear Michael -

My husband has been wanting to try anal for a while and I don't like the thought of it to much. I want to please him but I feel like he doesn't want to have sex with me very much anymore since I told him.

I don't want to try it because I've heard alot of bad stuff about it. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel he's trying to guilt me in to trying it. What can I do? Should I have anal sex?

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Dear Michael -

I am experiencing masturbation for the last four years, since I was 17 years old. And this had brought a serious back bone pain. How can I stop it? What are the advantages and disadvantages of masturbation?

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Dear Michael -

y fiancé and I have great sex! But I feel like I am always the one doing the work and starting the foreplay. If I am not the one starting the sex, then we can go weeks without having any. It's not a problem to get him hard, but I feel he always makes me do all the "getting hot and heavy" work. How do I get him to romance me and turn me on more, and be the one who ignites the flame?

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Dear Michael -

My question is regarding prescription drugs & oral sex. My husband takes blood pressure/cholesterol meds, however, my blood pressure is on the low side, as is my total cholesterol. How much of his meds might be in his semen? I've noticed there are medications men take that women aren't even supposed to touch. If your husband is on
certain prescription meds, can oral sex be dangerous?

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Dear Michael -

My question is on the secretion of sweetness. My girl and I both have a big sweet tooth. To curb the craving, she likes to drink water with sugar in it. I prefer eating honey on bread especially when it is crystallized. However, we also both enjoy kissing each other on the neck and have discovered that the skin tastes sweet. Is it normal after larger than normal doses of sugar for the skin to begin tasting sweet? And, are there any 'bad' things we should watch out for in having large amounts of sweet intakes?  Will sugar make my skin taste sweeter?

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Dear Michael -

My husband and I have been married for almost two years. He is an artist and I work in the medical field. We are happily married and never fight. We show our love to each other daily. However, he looks at pictures of nude women almost every day and his picture on his phone is a nude woman. When I asked him, he said that he looks at them because he has a hard time drawing the female body and he is kind of doing research.

Are the nudes art or porn?

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Dear Michael -

I'm 70 years and my wife is 60. Both of our sexual drives are still ok but we are concern about my small penis. Both of us wants it to be a little bit bigger so that she will also have more satisfaction..

There are several penis enlargement in the internet, but before I buy and try some, I like to get your opinion if what they advertise is really true and if there is a brand that you can recommend.  bigger penis advice

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Dear Michael -

Why do I almost always sneeze right after I come?! Is this common? Thanks. sneezing orgasms

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Dear Michael -

Why does my mate enjoy oral sex being done to him but he admits that he does not completely enjoy the feeling ? It comes naturally for me being French so I am a little confused by this comment today by my mate? By his groans when he climaxes I know that he enjoyed it but I think it may have something to do with his psyche??  why a man doesnt like oral sex

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Dear Michael -

My boyfriend and I dated for about 5 yrs and in that time we had a phenomenal sex life.

After we broke up my friends urged me to go find someone new to try new things since sexually, he was all I knew. (He didn't have much experience either but we were happy with each other.) He was always a "soft" kind of lover and while broken up I discovered that I much more enjoy a rougher, kinky kind of sex.

We ended up getting back together and every thing's great except our sex life now.  did experimenting ruin my sex life

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Dear Michael -

I'm a female in mid to late 20's. I have diabetes and take a lot of medications and I had my first orgasm long time ago. How can I get aroused/sensation feeling again? need a libido booster

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Dear Michael -

Also, when I supposedly have an orgasm, to me it feels like I pee. There's always a lot of liquid (like pee) that comes out of me. Is that normal. Is that supposed to happen? Every time we make love I wet the bed and we have to clean our selfs off with a towel or take a shower. getting wet during sex

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Dear Michael -

My wife and I are currently (temporarily) separated due to medical issues related to our youngest daughter. We are apart for several months and missing our regular times of physical intimacy. We are probably going to try "cyber-sex" via Skype. I already know some things I would like to ask her to do during that time, but she is feeling weird (but willing) about this.  need tips on cyber sex

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Dear Michael -

My question revolves around this.... it seems like the only time that I can squirt is when I really really push out when I am getting ready to cum. That is where the problem lies.... one day when we were making love he was performing oral on me (That's the best way to make me squirt) and I was pushing so hard that it sounded like I was farting.... embarrassed by queef

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Dear Michael -

Recently I learned that my boyfriend looks at porn. I know its a personal thing that he does but I have found that its offensive to me. It makes me feel unwanted or not good enough.  Is it normal to feel this way?  boyfriend watches porn

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Dear Michael -

I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago and I have been horny. I have masturbated only to get an odor 2 days later its coming out of my pours. What is causing this? odor after masturbation

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Dear Michael -

I just had a query if you don’t mind to answer. I am 51-year-old gentleman. I have 27 years happy married life. I would love deep intense kissing. However, my spouse does not encourage me nor allows me that act. What could be possible solution to get that pleasure? I hope you won't take this as some indecent or vulgar query. I am asking just out of interest... deep kissing tips

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Dear Michael -

I need some help I married this woman who is younger then me she is great in bed but she says she can be a lot better if I talk dirty to her tell me some of things I should say to her. I love her dearly and I want to make the happiest that I can. how to talk dirty

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Dear Michael -

We have an important question and hope you can answer or refer us to a trustworthy and reliable source. Someone informed us an interesting but disturbing information. We need to know if this statement is true….

1. A man must masturbate or release his sperm once or twice a month to prevent prostate cancer.
2. If a man does not have sex or release his sperm within 3 to 6 months, he will have a higher chance of getting prostate cancer.

can masturbation helps prevent cancer?

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Dear Michael -

I recently married my wife 8mths ago, it was a long distance relationship before we got married, then I moved across the ocean to be with her 3 days after we were married. We are a lesbian couple. But almost as soon as we were married I noticed a decline in our sex life.  lesbians not having sex

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Dear Michael -

I love my husband dearly, but what if I can't stand how he looks without his clothes. Please help. naked husband is repulsive

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Dear Michael -

I have a female colleague who is suffering from vaginismus - painful and overly tight vagina which does not allow proper penis penetration. Do you have any good solutions to that?  help with vaginismus

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Dear Michael -

I am most frisky when it is a full moon. I wonder why?  frisky full moon

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Dear Michael -

I am a female in my early 20's. I cannot get aroused. My blood almost never gets going (and when it does it doesn't last long) and I don't produce much of my own lubrication. can't get aroused

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Dear Michael -

Just want to know what you think about spanking and are there any other ladies interested in some amount of erotic pain in the normal world?  is spanking weird?

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Dear Michael -

May I ask if it is safe for him to suck my nipples quite strongly. Sometimes it hurts a little. I don't mind but I am worried it may cause breast cancer or something like that.  sucking nipples hard

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Dear Michael -

She always says, she makes love to me for me. She doesn't need any satisfaction. As your one letter said, men are ok with this from time to time, and you are right, but not
ALL the time. I want to make her orgasm but she don't want me too.  she has no sexual desires

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Dear Michael -

I had shared with him how I was starting to want sex less because he was nicer to me right after we had sex. Is that normal?  are men nicer after sex?

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Dear Michael -

My wife is hesitant to let me give her oral sex. The last time I did it, a couple of days later she got a urinary tract infection. She thinks the oral sex might have been the cause. Is this possible or likely? If so, what can I do to ensure it doesn't happen again? And, what can I do to convince my wife that it won't happen again?  urinary tract infection

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Dear Michael -

One question, I have is I am 23 but I am still technically a virgin. I have noticed people dont wait any more, they prefer if you are good in bed, Now I know I wont be good after the first few times, but after practice ill be great, but I would like to be great, is it better to wait or just go with the crowd.  virgin vs. experience

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Dear Michael -

I'm 28 yrs old and a mother of two boys aged 8 and 4. I'm a HR Manager and my husband a businessman my husband gets home everyday past midnight and he drinks on daily basis. I feel very lonely at times.

We only have sex when he needs it and it lasts for about 5 minutes. He does not even prepare me and at times its even painful...  should lonely wife take a lover?

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Dear Michael -

Recently after great sex in the living room, I fell asleep and woke up to find my husband watching porn on cable. He turned it off as soon as he realized I was awake and denied watching it. Then he admitted he frequently watches late night porn. But why after sex? He agreed the sex was great and shrugged his shoulders as to why. I kept calm so I could think it over, but I was shocked that I didn't know he's been watching this for years and to find him so engrossed after sex. Am I wrong to feel upset and that I somehow wasn't enough for him?  why porn after sex

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Dear Michael -

My husband and I have been married for 6 months we are both seniors he is 65 and I'm 57. He has tried Viagra and Cialis but neither one seem to help he seems sexually attracted to me and we do a lot of cuddling but he can not seem to maintain an erection. reasons men can't get an erection
 

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Dear Michael -

I recently found out that I am pregnant, and as my partner and I am getting ready for the baby, we are also excited that now we don't have to use birth control anymore. However... pregnant sex

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Dear Michael -

My wife & I have been married for 11 years now. We have had a good enough love life. But she began to put on weight. This does not bother me, because I love her regardless. I love the woman not just her body.

However, with the added weight came a distinctive odor that I find unpleasant when we are performing oral sex.  how to talk about smells down there