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Dear Michael -

My man is getting ready to turn 46. We have a great sex life and lots of fun the problem is due to life circumstances we are apart for sometimes weeks at a time. When we are able to finally connect again our habit has always been that I would give him a BJ or hand job because he loves it and I really enjoy giving those to him and that would release a lot of the tension he had. Then after about an hour we could go back for a longer, satisfying for both of us lovemaking session.

The last few times it has been really hard for him to become hard again even after waiting for a couple of hours... which leaves me frustrated at times... I do like for him to finger me or go down on me but my favorite is having him inside me while I cum.

If we try to do that first he is so horny because it has been such a long time that he can't last very long. We do have intimate conversations over the phone when he is away and I am sure he also masturbates at other times so it isn't if he is not getting any release at all between times.

I don't know if the problem is somewhat his age or something else. Do you have any suggestions I can try that would help him get hard again quicker?

Thanks...
Dana

 

Dear Dana -

Erectile Disfunction is when a guy can't get an erection at all. So, that doesn't appear to be his problem. 

Your guy actually had more stamina than most guys his age.  I would wager to say that most guys in their 40s (and late 30s) are not able/excited to shoot their load a few hours later after the first go around.  In general, most guys this age are 12 hour creatures.  Meaning a firm erection and interest in sex in the morning and once again that night.  Chances are when you are separated, he is not masturbating more than twice a day unless he has an addiction.

So, it sounds like your man is becoming a bit more "normal". That might mean you might want to give him his blow job or hand job (yes, the favorites of most men) at night and then in the morning he can slide his hard member into your dark and welcoming chamber.  Or vice versa. That will give him the chance to let off a little pressure to prevent premature ejaculation, but gives him enough time to recharge his batteries.

As men age, timings do change.  We orgasm at different speeds, intervals and with different intensities the older we get.  Many believe that men become more sensitive lovers as they age.

This is not to say that a man has to put up with a limp dick just like we don't have to give in to a sagging gut. If you truly want a thicker penis with harder erections and more powerful orgasms, you've got to do a bit of exercise.  With proper handling and techniques, you can dramatically increase blood flow to the penis (without drugs) to get the dick of your youth back, with the side benefit of making it even longer and thicker.  One of the best series of penis exercises I have seen is at Exercising the Penis

 

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