Is It Possible to Have Too Much Sex?

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Dear Michael - In your love making tips, you place great importance and value on foreplay, including the amount of time spent on foreplay. I value these tips and have tried to use some of them with my girlfriend. My girlfriend regularly has orgasms from intercourse. She also regularly has multiple orgasms from intercourse; sometimes needing to use two hands to count the number of times she orgasms in a single session. However, we recently had an experience that seems to contradict this. During our second love making session of the day, regardless of what we tried or how long we kept trying, she was unable to even come close to having an orgasm. Could this be because she had multiple orgasms during both our earlier intercourse AND foreplay prior to love making session number two? On previous occasions when we have had multiple love making sessions a day, this hasn't been an issue. Was this too much sex for her? Too much foreplay? Any advice? B.A.G. Dear B.A.G. - There are a number of reasons why someone can not orgasm when it is typically not a problem that he or she has. As you pointed out, she just might be worn out. Sex is a great workout and orgasms can drain the body. So it is not uncommon that she would be too pooped to pop the second time around. Another very likely scenario is that something happened between sex romp #1 and sex romp #2. She might have been stressing about something and while you were pumping, her mind was elsewhere. And, sorry to burst your bubble, both of you will lose your ability to do it like rabbits as you age. That is not to say that sex won't become even more satisfying, but marathon sex is not something your body can do forever. READER'S RESPONSES: .......................... Dear B.A.G. ~ Sounds like you have spent a great deal of time doing the best thing you can, which is reading up and using resources to be a great lover, to the point of wanting to be sure your girlfriend gets "hers" every time and I applaud you for that!!! :-) After running a 5K Marathon - I can promise you that if someone walks in and says, "Hey, let's go for a jog," my ability to even WANT to make my legs move at that point is just not doable. She just might be exhausted and need some more down time before putting on her "SEX SNEAKERS" again! :-) While climaxing is more of an "automatic" response for a man, with women it's a bit more complex. Everything from "time of the month", whether we're feeling particularly attractive that day, being tired, stressed or preoccupied mentally with finances, work or relationships, can block our ability to climax. Even a BIG meal beforehand can affect a woman's ability to just let go and get lost in the moment. We are rather puzzling creatures! lol Even to ourselves at times!! The best thing you can do is NOT ask "Did ya come?". It puts crazy pressure on a woman and can make her think, "Oh no, I didn't ... there must be something wrong with me!!". Cuddling and asking her after an appropriate amount of down time, "Is there anything else I can do to you that will make you melt" is all she needs to hear. If she didn't get there, and still wants more, she'll let you know. Even women who have the ability to have multiple orgasms will panic at the thought that they've suddenly gone "frigid" if there is too much pressure to do so! :-) Every time you are together will be unique. Don't expect that just because she came 4 times the last time you were together, that she will do it every single time, or even try to improve your score! lol And ladies, be honest with your man if you didn't come. Saying something like, "I didn't come, but you made me feel wonderful" is better than faking an orgasm. And guys, please be willing to hear that and not take it personally. TiKi

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